2019 started with saving the world.

I am no stranger to saving the world. You may have heard, or seen, or been unlucky enough to be roped into my 21st birthday’s attempt. We still don’t know the exact nature of the antagonistic forces we were fighting, or their motives; all we know is that something had to be vanquished. Like in every war. What went on in that particular one? It involved a cardboard Tardis door pasted over a room door a Tardis, which was obviously bigger on the inside, within which interviews were conducted with the unwitting future heroes about their hopes and fears. How many heroes volunteer to save the world anyway? No, the burden is thrust upon their chests, and only the noblest of the noble have strength enough to grin through their pain.

“This is harder than NS!”
— Testimony from yoggi, as he crawled through the blanket fort a treacherous land full of terror and danger where the Tardis had landed.

Thanks to their valiant efforts, we are alive to behold 2019 — just barely. A different group of quest-doers was summoned into a relatively nondescript room in a standard 93sqm HDB flat by a mysterious voice booming from the ether, which sounded suspiciously dog-like. The voice, I mean, not the ether. The ether mostly made its presence known through rectangular 6-inch screens that emit brilliant light and thunder with the force of their prophecies, especially when you forget to turn on Do Not Disturb after you turn in for the night. Having conveyed a vague wish for these individuals to gather, the voice then disappeared into the night, rendering no assistance whatsoever to their mission. I don’t think the voice even knew what the mission was.

So be it. It has always been up to humanity to save our own asses.

And so, armed with a controller, the four chosen members — henceforth known as hq, susimeow, scarlettmeow, and yours truly — the presence of so many cats a quirk of destiny, or perhaps to combat the rather useless doggy force that had brought us together — launched into a campaign of Lovers in a Dangerous Spacetime.

lovers spacetime.jpg

It was up to us defend the galaxy against the forces of Anti-Love, which had spawned from an engineering failure and threatened to suck the whole universe into a vacuum, on top of kidnapping various space creatures. Figures we would be responsible for our own destruction. We are our greatest demons. Could we undo the horror we had unleashed upon the galaxy? Us, four millennials, equipped with nothing more than the power of friendship? And a spaceship. Friendship in a spaceship.

lovers spacetime spaceship.jpg


Yes. Yes we can.

We quickly settled on roles: I was the driver, susimeow controlled the shield, while hq and scarlettmeow scurried around the four turrets and annihilated about everything that moved. (Except for the bunnies/frogs/foxes/chickens?? we were supposed to save. Doh.) Susimeow proved her mettle with her lightning reflexes in directing the shield in split second responses to sudden threats. Hq and scarlettmeow were like thousand-armed buddhas as they handled 4 turrets between the two of them. We peered hard at maps, planning our way through the least treacherous paths. And I steered them through it all, avoiding asteroids, strong currents, bear gashes, dwarf stars, nuclear bomb explosions… Along the way we picked up spaceship upgrades, and found our favourites — hq was especially fond of his 2x swinging chainsaw-blades; scarlettmeow, her rapidfire laser beams; while at the very last stage we combined a chain and laser power-up to conjure a monster of a claw shield for susi which grew long arms with every attack it absorbed. With the power of teamwork and the appropriate number of restarts, we emerged victorious, drenched with the space blood of our enemies and clinging on to our last drops of health, as every overtold hero’s journey dictates.

When will our world-saving powers be called upon again? May they never be needed, as peace reigns forevermore in our fragile universe. Alas, I fear this hard-earned stability is short-lived…


European Exp Lvl 2, Part ii (Berlin)

Some sense of responsibility compels me to come back and finish Part ii of my enlightening European journey, since it would be slightly odd to have a Part i hanging on by itself. I like to think of it as brimming with hope, just like how someone told me about fantasy authors planning endless sequels and encountering that inconvenient event called death before finishing them.

I would also like to borrow this space to express my extreme gratitude to a couple of benefactors. First, the heavenly union of technology and capitalism that resulted in this godsend called the data passport. For in this day and age, how can we be disconnected from our lifelines, among which number Google Maps and Google? WhatsApp and Facebook Messenger/Facebook? Instagram for our innumerable inanities?? (And whatever messenger apps your company uses. You can be disconnected from everything else but your boss.)

Second, this uniqlo jacket bought on the spur of the moment during a conference at Suntec has alerted me to the marvel that is inner pockets. This jacket contains two outer pockets and two inner pockets. Which fit my purse. And my passport. And my boarding pass. And my portable charger. And my audio guides. Where have they been all my life? Or just reasonably-sized pockets? Or just pockets?? I ask for so little.

If you find yourself in Berlin, I assure you the museums are top class. Go. We sacrificed a few lunches for them. Specifically, the Pergamon museum, the Natural History museum, and the Berlinische Galerie. They were all worth it.






your usual European cathedral


View from the Berlin Cathedral. Maybe the sun is a hot air balloon for some celestial being


Evidence: scaffolding everywhere



Brandenburg gate


Charlottenburg Palace, front. Those shields aren’t going to help much if you’re nekkid, my friends


Charlottenburg Palace, back



(Die Weisen aus dem Morgenland/The Magi, Carl Gustav Carus, 1825)


hrh is the perfect picture of autumn


The beautiful Ishtar gate, eighth gate to the inner city of Babylon (575 BC), in the Pergamon museum. That blue is gorgeousss



Not sure if product placement or someone hates shake shack. If the former, objective of craving for shake shack has been achieved.


This is just slightly creepy at night


Eye of the Victory Column. Someone warned me that Tiergarten was the site of many murders. Good thing I’m still alive. Or am I?? Woo







Swans everywhere. Is it weird if, when I see swans, I think of whether they’d be big enough to commit a specific crime against a certain Leda


city of dawgs

See you again, Europe! Maybe after another 5 Japan trips? And a US trip? 😀

European Exp Lvl 2, Part i (Munich)

At some point while editing these photos, it got way too fun pretending that I was the cinematographer of a hipster movie, so if you think that there might have been one too many instagram filters — you’re wrong. There can never be too many instagram filters.

This was my first trip to Germany, second trip to Europe, 5 years after the first one, with 3 trips to Japan in the interim. No, that’s not an excessive frequency. My first trip to Europe was in 2013, when 2 noobs, your humble blog-writer and one zh, went to join a not-so-noob, her royal highness, henceforth abbreviated hrh, in Europe because hrh was graduating and they thought they’d catch her there before she flew back. Having never really had a holiday by themselves before, they believed that the point of one was to catch them all, them referring to every conceivable tourist trap attraction, and proceeded to cram an ambitious average of 4-5 places in one day, 4 countries in 1.75 weeks. They walked a lot, didn’t have time for meals, and one of the noobs either got herself food-poisoned or a good old bout of flu, I forgot which, so they spent half a day looking for a doctor at a deserted hospital which was actually a perfect setting for any horror show. (American horror story?)

The hospital was apparently still operating. I’m not sure how it is that diseases take a break on Sunday, but I guess in Rome the viruses are particularly religious too.

This time round, I’m pleased to announce that at least one of the noobs has levelled up and feels confident enough to say that she has the European Experience down pat. The other noob’s experience cannot be ascertained, because she did not come on this trip. However, we hear she’s still getting food poisoning in almost all the cities she has visited. Not that that has any correlation to her level.

What changed in the 5 years? Let me tell you that financial independence is a glorious thing, for the first rule of enjoying yourself in Europe: do not scrimp. Get all the audio guides. Disregard entry fees, whether to palaces or toilets (that will be 0.5 euros thanks). And order alcohol over mineral water. Uh ok that was actually a tip to save money.

Oh, and don’t go during summer. And the first week of October. The latter’s a certain big country’s national day, which means you’re going to be seeing more tour buses than ancient ruins. Unless that’s your preference, then by all means go ahead.

We still had no time for food though, only because museums > food in Europe. Ain’t no time for carnal needs, etc. Told you we were seasoned European travellers.

Also I seem to have acquired a coffee habit. I will chalk that under the European experience as well.

Glockenspiel, Munich

Supposedly touching the boob gives you good luck, but I’m going to bet that’s just an excuse.

This angel has clearly just pulled off a prank.

Nymphenburg Palace, a lovely summer residence of teh royals


Alas, cruel rejection



Munich Residenz (I know this seems like my usual spelling style, but it’s really spelt with that z)



In the spirit of Germany I have ordered and imbibed alcohol. Behold, the pictorial evidence of ordering. The imbibing part, you’ll just have to take my word for it.



Neue Pinakothek, focusing on 18th and 19th century art, is now my favourite museum. GET THE AUDIO GUIDE. Which is more expensive than the entry ticket of 1 euro. We spent 5 hours there, but that had quite some speeding up towards the end — if you have time and time enough, you can go there twice in 4h blocks for a good leisurely experience, aka listening to every single audio explanation.





Ugly construction woes: a problem since 1788. (Demolition of the Houses on the Pont au Change, 1788, Hubert Robert)


A rumination on the senselessness of war. The audio guide said so. (Plucked Turkey, 1808, Francisco Jose)


I think they said this was a product of imagination. Like your condo advertisements, but cooler. (Cathedral lowering a town, 1813, Karl Friedrich Schinkel)


Basically evidence that we’re looking at the same buildings as ancient people ok (Residenzstrasse in Munich looking towards Max Joseph-Platz, 1826, Domenico Quaglio)


Probably a place to visit in Assassin’s Creed Odyssey. When I get my hands on it. (Idealized View of the Acropolis and the Areopagus in Athens, 1846, Leo von Klenze)


Another AC Odyssey place? Or maybe another AC (The Camposanto in Pisa, 1858, Leo von Klenz)


A parable cautioning young ‘uns not to be a (full-time) poet, else suffer a tiny attic with a leaky roof. So true it hurts. (The Poor Poet, 1839, Carl Spitzweg)


Sweatshop labour back in the day. (Women Collecting Limestone from the Bed of the Isar near Tolz, 1883, Joseph Wenglein)


Florence and the Machine’s previous reincarnation. (I lock my door upon myself, 1891, Fernand Khnopff)

Englischer Garten! It’s huuuuge. 3.7km2, according to Wikipedia. Terribly fond of it. And all the fowl inside.


Example of fowl, complete with fake handphone camera depth of field.


Even comes with your personal surfing longkang! (singlish for canal)



They said this field had suntanning nudists, but we did not see any. At most they were half naked.



See a highest point in the distance, what do you do? Get yo ass up there, of course.





Continuing my trend of disobeying European signs. Or actually just my trend of blindness.


Ahhh, part ii




Stop squirting me. That’s what she said.



We took a day trip to Eagle’s Nest. This was an ass-kissing gift to Hitler from the Nazi party, and took 13 months and 150 million inflation-adjusted Euros to complete. The structure was apparently left standing (as opposed to destroyed) by the allies, because they found it amusing that Hitler hated the place.




Hrh is pleased




Look, I got an eagle in the shot! At least I’m going to call it one. Hrh stands atop like Scar from Lion King surveying his kingdom.



I stole away from the group to do much-needed trekking around the area.



We also made a trip down to Neuschwanstein castle. Unfortunately in all the Google pictures they show you, an important part of reality is conveniently omitted: the construction/restoration/repairs. Every single place. That was the fate of the bridge from which everyone takes that classic google picture, so we were unable to join our millions of predecessors.


We can only look upon this bridge with longing.


“Close to you, so far away…” — probably not sung to a castle, Apology by Ashley Parker Angel



Smoke break


This was from Linderhof castle, which had a gorgeous, fairly tasteful interior, and was built specially for a single soul, our favourite loner king, Ludwig II of Bavaria. He was born in the wrong age when they were still being hung up over being attracted to the same sex. At least he had money.




Got a little addicted to the sun-through-trees view, there’s probably an esoteric word for it





Did you know that bus windows can be instagram filters too? Only the dirty ones.







Tiny crescent moon


Aaaand that’s a wrap for Munich. Off to Berlin! Oh, both places’ airports suck (Tegel for Berlin). For a country renowned for its efficiency, the airports’ layouts were not designed for that…

To be continued.

What makes a friend?

Today I’m thinking about friendship, how much of it is destiny, how much determinism. Who do I call my closest friends now, how did our friendship arise, how often do we keep in touch? Zh and I like to trace our origin story to seeing each other outside the RGS library – we already knew each other as classmates then – and I don’t exactly remember what happened after that. Did we go to Orchard Road after the library trip? And yet it was so simple, because as a 13 year old you have such space and time for new friends, and it really only takes another friendly person who thinks your oddities are okay to make a friendship.

And school! How they toss people together and make them interact with each other for such long periods! Friends didn’t need to be so deliberate, you didn’t have to seek them out explicitly, and just spending time together warmed each other up. Sitting together in the same row of tables, joking about teachers and crushes, and sharing about the most inane of events: building up a context that would serve you well in years to come. What makes you you is still so malleable, and then you mix these parts up together as you interact – your whole as a product of circumstance, personality, and friends.

Then you get out of your formative years and start being more aware of your round parts and sharp edges, what can still melt and what’s already solidified. It’s great – you are more secure with your part in the world (ideally!) – but it also means you’re choosier. Some friends you shed because their gears couldn’t mesh with yours any longer. You start recognising that people are entities, with their own circles of friends, interests, activities – their other-ness, so to speak – and this makes you more aware, and hesitant, of possibly imposing upon them when you reach across the great divide to propose sharing a section of your lives.

But some people you instinctively warm up to from the get go, recognising a similarity in – world view? moral compass? Something to do with the way you perceive they accept people, an absence of judgement for things that ultimately don’t matter.

Sometimes you see the goodness in your friends, and fall in love with them, a little, or a lot, and this extends to their other halves too, when you recognise that they’ve chosen well. You see that they’re more of trait A or B than you are – warmer, smarter, more creative, more generous – and, while wistful that you aren’t at that level for that trait, it makes you happy to know that humanity can contain all this goodness, and you can be a privileged recipient of its effects.

Side note about other halves: it’s like a cheat code to opening up a whole new world of friends, who will just accept your sudden inclusion in their lives, and continue a metaphorical conversation they’ve been having with your partner since the start of their friendship while you get to sit along for the ride. Like having the plastic wrap of a book suddenly melt away so you can open it in the middle, read about an inner world previously opaque to you. That’s one of my favourite bits about a relationship. Or even friendship, when your friends do this interesting thing of dragging random odds and ends of their friends together, and suddenly you’re a new group of friends! (does not always work out of course).

To end off this meandering post, I guess I just want to remind myself to always be receptive to the good and interesting parts of people, both those that I’ve already known and am yet to know: it will serve both as inspiration and motivation to be better. And that warmth begets warmth, interest begets interest; checking in regularly makes for free-r conversations that are about everything and nothing at all – the nothing part is just as important (sometimes even more!) as having something to say.

The resurrection of zx

Been doing a jaunt down memory lane these two days through reading my blog, and I realised I forgot how I used to enjoy writing about various events in an entertaining manner! To wax lyrical on art and sentiment and indulge in flights of fancy of imagination! My god, what happened to that Zhi Xin?? Subsumed by the relentless washing machine cycle of work? The prosaic demands of daily life? Where once I aspired to a life of the mind?

I suppose this is an attempt to revive said being from the dead. If her soul’s still floating around somewhere. We don’t even have a tombstone with the time of death for her, poor thing.

I had a delectable last weekend, spent on cultural pursuits like going to National Museum for Lee Cheng Hoe and Wu Guanzhong’s exhibitions, as well as… drumroll… Crazy Rich Asians! By which time probably anyone who’s going to watch it has already done so. Good thing my friends are slow like that, so I managed to ensnare a Sandra to watch it with me. Actually I would have watched it the weekend before that, but you know how it is trying to coordinate free dates. Instead I spent that one getting laughed at for failing a chase for four times in Detroit: Being Human. Hq really enjoyed listening to the chase track though, probably the one bright spot in that terrorizing episode. We then wasted 6 minutes of our lives watching this damn clip twice:

Maybe that’s how I should revive that dead zhixin. ZIXXX! ZIXXXXXXXXXXXX! Look it even has plenty of Xes.

Yw has invited me to some telegram chat group, and as a result I seem to have acquired a cat name as part of my initiation, courtesy of Yw as well. It’s Meowlodily. I must grudgingly admit it’s good.

Anyway, for those one or two souls who are still on the fence about Crazy Rich Asians, I’m here to throw my vote into the already exploding ring: it’s worth a watch! I think I must have been very good at not spoiling myself despite the weeks of newsfeed articles, because the only things I expected from the movie were: 1. indian car-door-openers and 2. chick flick. 1 was there, yes, but I’m pleased to say that it transcended genre boundaries with regards to 2!

“It’s less a romance between Rachel and Nick than between Rachel and prospective mother-in-law,” I solemnly summarised for Rita.

Spoilers follow.

The movie follows Rachel Chu, a smartass Econs lawyer at NYU, who regardless still doesn’t do a simple Google search on her boyfriend’s name in the one year she’s been dating him to find out that he’s pretty darn comfortable, and her journey to her rich boyfriend’s home in Singapore. Stumbling on a rich boyfriend, everyone’s dream, amirite? Except the in-laws, of course. Since the dawn of capitalism every poor person’s dream is to marry a rich one, and every rich person’s dream is to marry a richer one…

Even as the luxury within the movie is something to either marvel or laugh at (there’s always a joke in rampant excess), Rachel keeps the movie very much grounded in a middle-class sensibility: she refuses to be moved by the intimidating display of wealth or by the jealous exs and clan members who make it their lives’ mission to make things as unwelcome for her as possible. It’s her level-headedness that we connect to, as we experience her uncertainty and confusion, thrust into this world that does not want her, nor does she want to be part of — she does not covet wealth that doesn’t belong to her in the first place.

The theme of what — and who — belong to whom is one that recurs in the movie, from when Nick explains that he has never told Rachel about his background because he never felt that the money belonged to him in the first place, to Rachel rejecting a splendid 8 of bamboo tile that will rightfully complete her winning combination, because she does not want Nick to have to choose who (and hence what) to belong to (choose her, and he will be exiled from his Singaporean roots, starting afresh on American soil. Or as afresh as you can get when you have tons of old money behind you.) Even Astrid’s side plot echoes this: her husband essentially excused his cheating as a side-effect of feeling like an outsider. Money (and class): the true divide in any modern society.

We feel for Rachel as she spends a few days in blank despair at Peik Lin’s place, mulling over her options and what it means for Nick and her future, after being bluntly told to gtfo by both Nick’s mother and grandmother, the betrayal of which cuts deeper because of her initial appearance as a benign old lady. She also has to reconcile with a piece of her family history, namely that her father was not dead as she had always believed, but a lover whom her mother has never dared to contact, after escaping to America away from her abusive husband. That period of stasis is necessary: any step she takes from there will change her future, and she has to take it by herself, without anyone clouding her decision. And she does — she makes a decision completely independently, despite the intensity of her feelings for Nick. The sacrifice she is prepared to take is what makes her a most endearing — and enduring — character. We know that she is strong enough to handle the consequences, and we fall in love with her because of that.

At the heart of it I like this movie for Rachel’s very human strength, and her absolutely solid sense of self.


Contemplating growth and goodness

It’s almost a cliche when people point out the undesirability of using something, or someone, as a means to an end. The argument is always that having something in an end in itself is better, more right, more human.

I’d like to point out that the ‘end’s in both situations mean something different: the end in ‘means to an end’ has a connotation of a baser or more material reward, compared to an end itself, which has a quality of being more intrinsic.

At the same time, the first phrase has an idea of a process, even growth, by implying that the end is a state unattained, that one is striving towards it. Compare this to the second phrase, which seems almost static.

Yet that feels wrong, intuitively. Perhaps the growth is contained within the act of believing that whatever it is is the end. Which brings us to the behaviour vs intrinsic divide: having a means is merely changing your behaviour, but believing in the process comes from within.

Growth towards what? Improvement of what we term the soul: more fulfilled, more at peace, moral goodness. Minimising the negative effects of your actions, in consideration of an abstract stranger, an abstract world.

Making the abstract concrete is perhaps the hardest part, not just in considering the effects of your action. It’s easier to emulate and hopefully imbibe goodness if you see it reflected in the people around you, which means that for a society, the median level of goodness is actually more important in striving towards an ideal place than a few holy people here and there (but perhaps an argument can be made for inspiring the masses with your goodness? any historical proven examples?)

To achieve true inner growth, one has to start with understanding the motivations behind desired behaviour, as well as one’s own motivations, and reconcile the two. If you can understand why you feel inclined on doing certain things at certain times, you are better able to change those reasons over time. Spending time examining your feelings might cause those feelings to rupture at first, but that in itself is cathartic, and allows for moving on. Which could also be the growth that we wanted to define.

Uninformed Consent

This is a fantastic passage on tricky problems of consent within an intercultural context, from the text Dramaturgy in Motion: At Work on Dance and Movement Performance, by Katherine Profeta. TLDR: Black American dancers ask Chinese musicians if they consent to putting on black face, while explaining racist context to them. Chinese musicians say Ok, but obviously don’t understand/care for the context. Is their consent really consent?

When Ralph took his initial research trips across Asia, his journals were rife with observations of basic similarities and differences in skin color, and he drew many of his observations in distant cultures into contrast and comparison with his own experience of race as a black American. For instance, he observed the rural farmers in China’s Yunnan province and wrote, “many are as brown as me. Stunning darkness.” Later he mused about a correlation between dark skin and punishing labor. When, months later, farmer-musician Mr. Li traveled miles from Yunnan to join Ralph in a San Francisco rehearsal room and sat down to sing to the accompaniment of his san xian—a plucked musical instrument whose name literally means “three strings”—Ralph was immediately struck by an overlapping analogy. The sound triggered the image of “an old black man in the South,” sitting and playing a banjo, singing the blues. And indeed, the san xian as played by Mr. Li did sound uncannily like a banjo to American ears.


Ralph began performing workshop solos to Mr. Li’s san xian, imagining himself dancing as “an old black man” to this rural Yi tune. Later he began thinking of ways to push the cross-cultural analogy even further. He began entertaining the idea of asking Mr. Li and Mr. Wang to wear the makeup of blackface minstrels on stage during his solo, for he fully realized that his hearing of the American “Old South” in Mr. Li’s music was an artificial, mythologizing gesture, imposing his own context upon theirs. He suspected that the makeup would make blatant not just the comparison he was hearing but also how wrong it was—highlighting and making a point of the artificiality of the imposition. Immediately he and I began discussing how the two musicians, who were working out of a very different tradition, had little understanding of the resonances of blackface in America. His proposed gesture was thus clearly for an American target audience, a gesture in which our Chinese guests could not intuitively share.


The first matter at hand was to bring Mr. Li and Mr. Wang in on Ralph’s thinking. We gathered together the two men and the requisite interpreters, including dancer Wen Hui, who was the best at speaking and understanding Yunnan dialect. Ralph showed the group photographs of early minstrels and blackface performers, first describing at length the racist context for that tradition, so ingrained in American theater history. I recorded the rest of the interaction in my rehearsal room notebook as follows:


Ralph explains: “I want you to know that in this work there are racial issues. . . . When Mr. Li sings and plays, and I dance, I think of you two as these old black men in America, singing the blues. I want to dance to your music. We did it in [workshops in] San Francisco and Austin. But [this time] I want to make sure the audience is seeing what I’m seeing. I want to make reference to black men, but to the stereotype of black men, and have those men be playing Chinese music. It may be too strong, but I wonder if you would try it.”


Ralph then turns to the interpreter: “Do they understand? The idea is risky, it’s racist . . .” She attempts to explain further, in Mandarin, and Wen Hui helps by glossing in Yunnan dialect. Eventually Mr. Wang and Mr. Li reply simply: It’s OK. They have no questions to ask, which makes all of the Americans in the room a little uncomfortable.

Within a few days the necessary makeup was purchased, and the blackface episode was tried out in the rehearsal room. Immediately afterward a considerable subset of Ralph’s collaborators, myself included, felt an urgent need to ask him questions. We all wanted to open up a dialogue about what exactly he was doing—a clear instance of a dramaturgical function dispersed across a larger collaborative group. As Ralph remembered it in his published journal: “Cheng-Chieh, Katherine, Wen Hui, Carlos, David and Anita [i.e., performer, dramaturg, three more performers, costume designer] corner and force me to explain what it is I’m trying to say with the blackface abstraction. Six variations of friendly outrage. I tell them that I could maybe answer their questions in 30 days. In the meantime, I’ll dance, while Wang and Li wear blackface, while Li plays the san xian, which all of us now call the banjo.”


Despite our dramaturgical grilling, Ralph resisted any implication that he should have immediate answers to these questions. Instead, he wanted to come to an understanding by dancing the troublesome image he had constructed. And meanwhile, as we all continued to wonder, Ralph continued his efforts to make sure Mr. Wang and Mr. Li understood what they were taking part in. He brought more documentation of the American minstrel past into the rehearsal room and invited the two men to dinner off-hours, where (through an interpreter or two) they discussed analogous racial stereotyping in a Chinese context. He kept looking for ways to make them his partners instead of his subjects in this gesture he had devised. Ultimately it was difficult for the American collaborators to verify how much this communication had succeeded, or to even understand what would constitute success. Ralph ended up concluding that even though Mr. Wang and Mr. Li understood on a literal level, they did not have the cultural context to fundamentally understand, or perhaps more important, really care about what he found important. As he put it: “They just look at me curiously, flat. I feel embarrassed, foolish, for bringing this issue to the process. But I’ll do it again, and again. My American exaggeration.”


What might be the ethical balance sheet for this performance moment, which did make it all the way onto the proscenium stage? For the American target audience, in being recognizably problematic it was also provocative, and thus valuable—it stirred consternation, argument, reflection on the bizarre symmetries and embarrassing limits arising from any doomed project of cultural comparison. Ralph had heard the Mississippi Delta in the Yi music. As he later explained, in feeling aware of the limits of that connection, he decided to “exaggerate my thinking and make it shameful because I don’t really know China or the Mississippi Delta.” The exaggeration, the shamefulness, and the wrongness were the expressive point. The transgressive nature of the moment was part of what made it desirable to put onstage—but this conclusion lands, of course, securely within Ralph’s home cultural environment.


As applies to Mr. Wang and Mr. Li’s position, on the other hand, the balance sheet was less knowable to this American dramaturg, as well as other collaborators. For some members of the production, Taiwanese and American dancer Cheng-Chieh Yu prime among them, the blackface episode remained troublesome. When I interviewed her after the Tree tour had concluded, she explained:“[ They] had no real idea about the significance of putting on blackface, even though Ralph tried to explain the history behind it. The issues were too far from their understanding. Their unawareness made me uncomfortable….Wang and Li were willing to do pretty much anything Ralph asked them to do, so the whole responsibility was on Ralph.”


How to discuss and decide, when moments of transgression are attempted within an intercultural performance experiment, whether an idea crosses a line that should not be crossed? What is really at stake, and who gets to say what should or should not go forward? Who has the power to grant permission, and who has the responsibility to decide whether that permission is sufficient? Key in this particular discussion in Tree were Mr. Wang and Mr. Li’s understanding and consent. If they were partners in the gesture, it was felt, then all was well — the transgression would be entirely located within the performance, not within the collaboration. But if they were not fully consenting because they were not fully informed, what then? What was the nature of being informed, anyhow? Was it enough that the relevant cultural history had been literally explained and translated for them? In their seeming “not caring” about the context of American blackface, should we have read an insufficient understanding, and thus not real consent? Or in their “not caring” should we have read their perfectly reasonable understanding that these issues were not their own, and that they would personally not have to deal with any serious consequences from their onstage gesture, for they would soon return to their farm village in Yunnan with an interesting experience under their belts and turn their attention to a host of completely different priorities and concerns?


Although this episode implies many more questions than just the question of advocacy for one’s guests, I will land on that question as a location where the issue might finally reside. In the attention a host shows to a guest, in the regard shown for the “other’s” welfare when invited onto unfamiliar ground, how does one draw the line between appropriate concern and patronizing solicitude? In fearing that Mr. Wang and Mr. Li’s very direct words, “It’s OK,” did not actually constitute consent, were we responsibly advocating for our guests’ well-being or just ignoring what they were telling us? Maybe we were just being self-centered Americans all over again, insisting they should care more profoundly about our context when they were telling us quite clearly no, they did not. When does the host’s concern for guests become just another means of imposing beliefs?


I did attempt to interview Mr. Wang about his retrospective views on the collaboration. This “interview” was conducted after he had returned home, over forwarded e-mails and an intermediary’s phone call, so through more than one stage of imperfect translation, just as our dialogue in rehearsal rooms had been. I asked him if anything had shifted for him since working on Tree, what he thought in retrospect of the time he spent in the United States, and whether he thought Ralph had been adequately respectful of his music and his culture. He replied that the work in the United States had given him enough money to build himself a new home. He also said that our work had been one of the rare times he had been able to earn money from his music, instead of from carpentry or other physical labor, and he hoped for more times like that. He was glad that Ralph had liked his music, and yes, he thought Ralph had been respectful of his culture. He would be happy to work with him again. And that was about all it seemed important to him to relay to an inquiring dramaturg from very far away. Of course, it was not clear what was making it through the filters standing between us, either. The man who contacted Mr. Wang for me and posed my questions ended his e-mailed summary of Wang’s answers with the following words: “Interview with Wang was not so easy. I tried to find something useful from a lot of words about life is hard, need money. But I believe he is a very honest person as a farmer in such a poor village of China who I understand.”


The nature of Mr. Wang’s last communiqué, arriving as it did through the filter of what the interviewer/translator had found “useful” and manifesting above all the stark contrast between our contexts and material resources, was very familiar. It encapsulated well how I often felt about the experience of collaborating with him. Often his words as reported seemed direct, easy to understand. Yet the situation was not direct or easy at all, because so much was not available for communication. And the exercise of my imagining what would be said between us, if the means for communication were somehow further developed, was still ultimately an exercise of imposing my cultural context and frames of understanding on his.

Beyond the cultural context, there’s also an economic context at play – worrying about racist implications of an act you are partaking in (especially in a part of the world in which you are just a visitor!) belongs to the domain of those who aren’t fully preoccupied with basic needs. With the post-dance interview in mind, it was impossible for them to give any sort of an informed consent. The recent blackface incident on China’s CNY programme also shows that a segment of the population (the producers, the censors, and presumably a significant part of the audience) whom we expect to be cosmopolitan (and hence, in a position to know better than these collaborators) simply isn’t acquainted with these issues. I know from the context I grew up with that many Chinese are blind regarding their racism — the Singaporean ones are too used to being the privileged majority, the Malaysian ones feel righteous because of their govt’s treatment towards them, and I suspect for China Chinese it’s the same case as for Singaporean Chinese.

There was no way any amount of explanation would have caught the collaborators up on the context they needed. With the extent of the collaborators’ ignorance, the responsibility for this act really just falls on Ralph. Arguably he should not have gone ahead. But what does this say about the possibility of collaboration between people of different means, exposure to the world, and education levels?